https://arul-unfiltered.neocities.org/ Recent content on Arul's Unfiltered Opinions Hugo en-us Fri, 16 Jan 2026 00:00:00 +0000 https://arul-unfiltered.neocities.org/blog/are-you-being-too-nice/ Fri, 16 Jan 2026 00:00:00 +0000 https://arul-unfiltered.neocities.org/blog/are-you-being-too-nice/ smiles This is a casual post. Don’t read it if you’re a crybaby… but do read it if you’re wounded and need to know the truth :) You were living your life, filled with misery, difficulties, obstacles, pain, sufferings — it became a part of you, made you strong, soft, and caring. Then you see another human facing just a fraction of your suffering. You feel sorry for them. Now you’re not just sympathetic — you’re trying to fix their misery because of your empathy.